Yesterday a friend of mine invited me to a very special movie night here in Ibiza.
Sharing a lot with each other about our own experiences in different types of relationships he knew that I would love to see a documentary called “Monogamish”.
Men keep asking me how to rediscover sexual passion in their beloved wife. Even though I mainly work with women, I hear your calling. Your vulnerable shares and deep yearning for connection are close to my heart.
So this one is for you men. And ladies, I’m sure you will benefit from reading as well. Though this is written for heterosexual partnerships, it will work equally well for same-sex couples.
First of all, the time of falling in love usually ends after two to three years. That means couples get to a point where the relationship is not only happening by mystery itself anymore. The natural erotic pull, seductive play and surprising moments you experienced with each other at the beginning tend to get less with time.
It takes some work and effort. That may sound serious, but if two lovers are committed to love and growth with each other, it creates on a longer term an even deeper bonding between them.